Sorry Not Sorry 3

Forgive as the Lord forgave you.


Big Idea

Healing take time.

Message notes:

I N T R O D U C T I O N

Have you ever just given up on something because it took too much time?

TENSION

When it comes to forgiveness, we want to feel better now.

TRUTH

Jesus is saying this: When it comes to forgiveness, the number isn’t the point. “You need to forgive as many

times as it takes for the forgiveness to ‘take.’” It’s important that you keep forgiving as long as you need

to, until your emotions catch up with your decision, until the hurt starts to hurt a little less.

A P P L I C AT I O N

Here are three steps you can take to begin fully forgiving someone: 1) Pray for the person who hurt you 2) Serve them 3) Repeat.

L A N D I N G

So make a decision this week to make forgiveness—true forgiveness—a reality in your life.


Group Questions:

Q1: Why do we sometimes expect our healing to be quick or instant after being hurt?

Q2: What’s the difference in forgiveness and healing? (Leaders, forgiveness is a choice we make. Healing is something that happens in our hearts, often over time.)

Q3: Healing takes time, what can you do while you wait for your choice to catch up with how you feel?

Q4: What are some things you can do if you’ve decided to forgive someone but still don’t feel better?

Q5: Which one these 3 steps are the hardest for you when forgiving someone and why?

a. Praying for them

b. Serving them

c. Repeating (a & b)

Leaders— encourage your students to think of one person they want to forgive and set a reminder in their phone everyday this week to pray for them.


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